If you’re thinking of giving this to himIt won’t tell him he’s broken, and it won’t tell him what to do about you.
It’s written so it can be handed over without landing as an accusation.
It’s a reasonable thing to do.
Turned Down is for men in long relationships who feel more like roommates than they would say out loud.
It doesn’t tell him he’s broken. It doesn’t tell him what to do about you. It works on the part that’s his.
What he’ll read
- 04Why he misreads you on the days he’s braced for a no.
- 05What his flinch is, and why you can see it.
- 06Why going quiet felt considerate to him, and isn’t.
- 07What the three seconds after a no do to both of you.
- 12Why how you talk about it counts for more than how often.
- 13How he can turn toward you without disappearing himself.
Read it before you give it.
Chapter 7 is free, so you can see how the book talks to him.
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When the book is out, choose Buy it as a gift on this page.
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Questions
How does the gift work?
When you buy it here, you can mark it as a gift and add a message. He gets the book by email.
Can I read it first?
Yes. Chapter 7 is free, so you can see how it talks to him before you give it.
Does it take sides?
It’s written to him, because it’s his part it can do something about. It doesn’t make you the problem.
What if there is pressure, control or violence?
Then this is the wrong book, and what you need is a person, not a paperback.
Turned Down
For Men Who Feel Unwanted in Their Marriage and Are Tired of Being the One Who Asks
Read chapter 7 tonight. Decide after.
If there is coercion, violence or control in your relationship, in either direction, this is the wrong book. What you need is a person, not a paperback.