https://www.turneddownbook.com/notes/ Short, sourced notes for men who are tired of being the one who asks. en https://www.turneddownbook.com/notes/wife-rejects-me/ https://www.turneddownbook.com/notes/wife-rejects-me/ Mon, 21 Sep 2026 00:00:00 GMT When you are turned down again and again, the no stops being the main event. What matters more is what you do in the seconds after it. In a 2025 study of couples, the days the turned-down partner went cold or anxious were worse days for both. Accepting the no went with a better relationship, though not a painless one.